Both of them are religious people who take marriage and commitment very very seriously; that may help to mitigate any age gap problems. From her point of view, it's not how you feel now that matters, it's how you will feel in 5 or 10 years. Based on her history and beliefs, she wants an older guy because that means that there's a higher chance that he'll want to settle and is ok with settling which is not always true of course. Together 7 years. But time will tell, as it always does. Here are a handful of reasons how:.
5 unexpected benefits of dating a younger partner
Dating a girl 8 years younger than you
I just won't try it any more. Good luck. You probably should admit it to yourself, at least, that yes, this could be a possibility -- and what if?